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2012年1月21日 星期六

[轉載]馬來西亞南洋商報摘錄李宗偉自傳(之一)



 馬來西亞華文報紙《南洋商報》獲李宗偉授權摘錄, 引用網址: http://www.nanyang.com/node/415056?tid=500

2012.01.18

系列1:童年生活

 從童年開始回溯我的過去,記憶經過時間沉澱,已經都不完全真實了。

 它們被洗煉、美化成我所期望的樣態,我可能已經寬容地看待那些不怎麼愉快的經歷,而那些美好的記憶又有多少可能經過潛意識的修飾、編造。

 我的故事的開始是再普通、平凡不過的了……

 一九八二年十月二十一日,我出生在馬來西亞霹靂州的巴眼色海(Bagan Serai)。

 我的爸爸的名字叫李亞財,他瘦小的身影扛起一家生計,為了家庭做過各種性質的工作,開往來霹靂與檳城的長途計程車、油漆工、漁貨運輸工人,他是社會上中低階層的典型小人物,一直都在盡自己最大的能力,努力維持家庭的收支平衡。而我今天的成就要感謝爸爸給與的機會。

 媽媽叫許金水,年輕的她是一個美人胚,十九歲就嫁給了爸爸。她是一個傳統的婦人,在家相夫教子,因為爸爸收入微薄媽媽仍要承接一些家庭手工業來補貼生活支出,但對艱苦的生活她從無半點怨言。


從小不斷漂泊

 我是李家最小的孩子,上有兩個哥哥、一個姐姐、大哥宗順和二哥宗穎在父親老家巴里文打 (Parit Buntar)出生。排行老三的姐姐美琴和我一樣在家裏搬遷到巴眼色海後出生。後來我們又輾轉搬到媽媽在檳城日落洞(Jerutong)的娘家住了一段時期,然後在爸爸朋友的介紹下,舉家搬遷至直落巴巷漁村(Teluk Bahang)住了幾年。在我四歲那年,我們搬遷至大山腳定居(Bukit Mertajam),這才結束了我們一家不斷漂泊的日子。

 八十年代初,政府到民間宣導家庭生育計畫,媽媽在服用避孕藥的情況下仍然意外懷了我。因為當時家中的生活很拮据,在我之前已經有了三個孩子,爸爸媽媽本來沒有計劃再生育,因此我的出生對李家而言是一個驚喜。所以媽媽更把我的意外出生,看作是上天送的禮物。

 至今媽媽談起我出生的經過還是笑得很開心,她說那時心底希望我是個女孩,家中孩子已有二男一女,若我是女孩,家裏可以湊出兩個“好”字。

 我的出生很快就為這個並不寬裕的家庭迎來了第一個問題,原本就捉襟見肘的生活將更添增沉重的負擔。當時身邊的親戚都憂心,因此建議媽媽在我出生就將我送人撫養。雖然在那個年代,把孩子送給親友撫養是社會可以普遍接受的行為。但是媽媽堅決反對,她始終認為孩子是自己的親身骨肉,就算日子過得再苦,也絕對不能送人。


遺傳媽媽不認輸個性

 每次聽媽媽說起從前的故事,都看到她眼神中倔強的神彩,還有對家庭絕對付出的信念,以及一位母親保護孩子的天性。

 我想我個性中不輕易認輸的態度,那對自己想要做好的事情拚盡全力的堅持,應該是來自媽媽。

 長大後我看媽媽對別人誇她的孩子都乖巧、都優秀,就可惜家裏的環境沒有辦法讓他們好好繼續升學發展,自己忙於工作而對孩子疏于照顧,言語中總是流露著對孩子們的虧欠。

 其實媽媽一直都不想大哥和姐姐在還在念書書的時候就出來找工作,但是家庭的負擔又讓她默默的接受這殘酷的決定,讓大哥和大姐早熟地面對社會的現實。

 媽媽的生活矛盾是後來我才逐漸明白的。她口中常常叨念著很多的“如果”。如果家庭環境好一點,原來書念得很不錯的大哥不會一早就出社會工作;我們家的孩子都是有天資的,如果有更多的時間照顧孩子,他們都可能是很成功的專業人士。但是,我想對媽媽說,生命沒有多的如果。況且,現在我們生活都很好。

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