以麥經理的運動趣味為主, 讀書心得及嗜好收藏為輔.... 建議瀏覽視窗寬度 1024 pixel

2012年1月24日 星期二

[轉載]李宗偉自傳(之四) -- 青澀愛情陪伴渡過高低潮


少年時的李宗偉捧著湯杯合照,如今是世界一哥的他將率隊征戰湯杯入選賽。

 馬來西亞華文報紙《南洋商報》摘錄李宗偉自傳《敗者之王》, 由於《南洋商報》的連載持續, 本部落也將跟進, 不過採取延遲一天轉載的做法, 不直接轉載當天的內容.  
------------------------------------------

 關於愛情,我們都從年輕的時候開始練習如何成為一個更好的人。我的青春時光,感謝有這麼一個陪伴我走過人生的高峰與低谷,陪我度過每一段快樂和難過失落日子的那一個善良女孩。

 結束早上的訓練,吃過早餐後我們就步行到學院隔壁的國際學校上課。

 我的書包裏,亂七八糟地塞著幾本課本和講義,沒有一件像樣的筆盒、文具。

每幾天女孩默默借筆

 那天我又沒有帶筆去上課了,我拍拍坐在前面女孩的椅背,問她是不是可以借我筆。女孩綁著整齊俐落的辮子,乾淨的校服熨燙得筆直,一雙眼眸純淨而明亮。她總是乖巧、安靜地上課。專注地聽老師講課、認真地抄寫功課筆記。

 她轉過身把筆放在我的桌上,然後又默默地轉回頭。而這樣的互動每幾天總要上演一次,似乎已經成了習慣。

 後來,班上的同學漸漸注意到我們微妙的互動,面對她不熟絡的人總是表現得害羞、安靜的她只是把筆借給我。同學取笑說她只把筆借給我,鬧她說是不是喜歡我?這個青春期的同齡朋友對於感情這事情顯得特別敏感,一點點曖昧不明的小動作就會招惹大家的起鬨。她羞紅了臉,輕斥大家亂說話,轉身就走。

 被大家瞎鬧了幾次之後,我開始注意身邊這個女孩。

 在那個年紀,任我們誰都還不太瞭解愛情背後牽扯太多複雜的事情。那時候愛情僅僅是兩個人談得來,這樣簡單、純粹的兩情相悅。只是單純地喜歡看著她說話的神情、分享故事的時候燦爛的笑臉。不用太多的理由,愛情就只是我們兩個人擁有互相吸引的某種特質。

沒曲折相愛過程

 我們一起經歷的,把我們的距離拉得更近了。沒有曲折的相愛過程,我們就這樣自然而然地走在了一起。

 來自管教孩子如此嚴謹的家庭,與她同在羽球學院訓練的姐姐擔負著父母的叮囑,負責監督、照顧妹妹的生活,所以我們要小心翼翼地不讓她姐姐知道我們的關係。

 儘管如此,我們交往的事情還是被她姐姐發現了,並且告訴了家人,毫無意外,他的父母對她嚴厲呵責,警告她若想繼續打球就不准談戀愛。

 面對父母的反對,一向乖巧聽話的她對我說不如我們就做回普通朋友。但是我覺得我們的交往並沒有對國家隊的表現或者生活上帶來負面影響,況且我兩相處得很好,沒有分開的必要。她找不到說服我放棄的理由。於是我們選擇做了一個秘密協定:向大家宣稱我們已經分開,但是實際上我們還是維持著情侶的關係。

 一直到2003年,她拿到了全國冠軍,也在東運會贏得金牌。爭取好成績的共同目標對我們的羽球事業起著的正面的相互影響,我們都在國家隊有了一定的成就。她的父母也相信了她不會因為戀愛而對羽球事業分心,也就不再阻止我們在一起,漸漸接受了我們的戀情。

 我的個性雖然活潑好動,但是性情木訥,不善於言辭、不懂浪漫,而她是個情感豐富的女生。她說我讓她最感動的事情不過是有一次在她的生日的時候,我瞞著她把她的家人、朋友全部都請到餐廳一起替她慶祝生日,給了她一個小小的驚喜。

 她說,只要我還記得她的生日,這樣就已經足夠了。

 十七、八歲的年紀,愛情之於我而言是吸引力,那是一種說不明白的微妙情愫,是期待、猜度和朝思暮想。我也開始學習起戀愛這件事情,學習兩個人的溝通相處。

 年紀逐漸增長,對待愛情的想法已經轉變,不再是以前單純相愛那樣簡單純粹,現在的我開始顧慮起未來,兩個人狂熱地相愛但是隨即而來的還有生活的負擔。而作為肩負責任的男人,我期許能夠為給對方一個幸福無憂的生活,而我現在就在積累這樣的能力。

 新聞網址: http://nanyang.com/node/415842

沒有留言:

張貼留言

熱門文章

標籤

china (2451) Chinese Taipei (1624) Korea (1560) japan (1535) Malaysia (1488) Indonesia (1462) badminton (1221) Denmark (1037) Thailand (927) India (710) Super Series (605) Hong Kong (586) BWF (546) Germany (452) Grand Prix Gold (440) Super Series Premier (425) Taiwan (361) Live Stream (291) Singapore (281) London Olympic (253) England (244) World Championships (236) Lin Dan (199) Thomas Cup (196) Vietnam (189) Asia (187) Uber Cup (181) Russia (164) Super Series Finals (141) Spain (140) Sudirman Cup (124) All England (117) Indonesia Open (114) China Masters (112) London (109) Video (107) Canada (106) Lee Chong-Wei (106) Netherlands (104) Hong Kong Open (99) China Open (97) World Junior Championships (91) French Open (89) USA (89) Singapore Open (87) Grand Prix (82) France (81) Europe (74) Macau (74) Badmintonworld.tv (73) Qingdao (69) Badminton Asia Championship (68) Poland (68) UK (68) International Challenge (66) Yonex Open (66) Australia (64) Wuhan (64) Malaysia Open (63) Yonex (60) India Open (59) US Open (58) Swiss Open (57) Maybank Malaysia Open (56) Macau Open (53) Australia Open (51) German Open (51) Axiata Cup (45) Korea Open (45) Scotland (45) Taufik Hidayat (45) Canada Open (44) Djarum (44) Thailand Open (43) u-19 (43) Lee Chong Wei (41) All England Open (39) Youth (39) T-Shirt (38) Yonex Open Japan 2012 (38) Denmark Open (36) Victor Korea Open (36) Ireland (35) Peter Gade (32) Osaka (31) Olympic (29) Reiko Shioda (28) Sweden (27) rules (27) KARA (25) Lee Yong Dae (25) Universiade (25) Yonex Denmark Open 2012 (25) Shenzhen (24) BAM (23) SCG (23) Yonex Open Chinese Taipei 2012 (23) Yonex-Sunrise (23) Bulgaria (22) BCA Indonesia Open (21) YouTube (21) New Zealand (20) photo (20) FISU (19) Fu Haifeng (19) Li Xue Rui (19) Music (19) Philippines (19) Cai Yun (18) Dubai (18) GB (18) Bitburger Open (17) Championship (17) China Badminton League (16) Swiss (16) Tai Tzu Yin (16) Wang Xin (16) Yonex Denmark Open 2013 (16) Live (15) Wang Lin (15) 羽球 (15) Chen Long (14) Finland (14) Mexico (14) World Senior Championships (14) Yonex Open Japan 2013 (14) 讀書心得 (14) Czech (13) New Zealand Open (13) Rio Olympic (13) SEA Games (13) Shuttle Time (13) Super Series Masters Final (13) Varity Show (13) Badminton World Magazine (12) Bimantara Cup (12) Jin Chen (12) PBSI (12) Turkey (12) 2011 (11) Djarum League (11) Music Video (11) Reiko Shiota (11) Shintaro Ikada (11) Wang Yihan (11) adidas (11) CCTV-5 (10) Japan Open (10) Swissland (10) Youth Olympic Games (10) 2012 (9) Bao Chunlai (9) Norway (9) Poll (9) Ranking (9) Vietnam Open (9) Yonex Open Chinese Taipei 2013 (9) Asia Youth Championships (8) BAC (8) International Series (8) Samsung (8) SoliBad (8) Switzerland (8) Yonex German Open (8) Yonex Open Japan (8) league (8) 酒光與杯影 (8) Draw (7) East Asia Games (7) IOC (7) OUE Singapore Open (7) Regulation 19.2 (7) South Africa (7) Super League (7) Taipei (7) Victor (7) Apple (6) Brazil (6) European Championships (6) Games (6) India Badminton League (6) KLRC (6) Li-Ning (6) OSIM (6) Portugal (6) Syed Modi International (6) Victor Sports (6) X-trm (6) bankaltim (6) BKA (5) Badminton Asia Junior Championships (5) Badminton Nippon League (5) Chinese (5) Dutch Open (5) Game Wear (5) Gwangju (5) Hwasun Open (5) International Olympic Committee (5) OCBC (5) Proton Malaysia Open (5) Ranking circuit (5) SCG Thailand Open (5) SNSD (5) UNISYS (5) Viktor Axelsen (5) Wang Shixian (5) Yonex Open Chinese Taipei 2014 (5) Yonex Open Chinese Taipei 2015 (5) Yonex Open Japan 2015 (5) computer (5) doping (5) paris (5) 網路電視 (5) 2010 (4) Asia Games (4) Austria (4) Badminton Europe (4) Cheng Shao Chieh (4) Chinee Taipei (4) Ciputra (4) France Open (4) Instant Review System (4) Italy (4) Kanji (4) LLee Chong-Wei (4) Panasonic (4) Renesas (4) Sho Sasaki (4) Sri Lanka (4) Steve Jobs (4) badminon (4) 2NE1 (3) America (3) Asia Young Championships (3) Badminton Asia Confederation (3) Beijng Olympic (3) Bonny (3) CCTV (3) Campus Note (3) Copenhagen Masters (3) Daekyo (3) Duabi (3) Entry (3) Germany Open (3) Google (3) Iceland (3) Indonesia Masters (3) Israel (3) JOC (3) Japanese (3) Jim Croce (3) Kokuyo (3) Korea Masters (3) Li Ning (3) Malaysia Masters (3) Michelle Li (3) PG (3) Peru (3) Proxy (3) Saina Nehwal (3) Skirt (3) Suhandinata Cup (3) Syndey (3) US (3) Variety Show (3) WADA (3) Welsh International (3) Wenlock and Mandeville (3) Yonex Open Japan 2014 (3) Zhou Mi (3) software (3) 2009 (2) 2013 (2) 4 Wangs (2) Africa (2) Books (2) Cat (2) Chinese Taipei China (2) Choi Ho Jin (2) Cuba (2) Dennis DeYoung (2) Dominicana (2) Eurosport (2) Finland Open (2) Game-fixing (2) Grnad Prix Gold (2) Health (2) Holand (2) Jakarta (2) Jeonju (2) Kento Momota (2) Koea (2) Laureus Awards (2) Lu Lan (2) Maybank (2) MetLife (2) NeXT (2) Network (2) Nintendo (2) Open (2) Osaka International Challenge (2) PPeter Gade (2) Play Station (2) Polish Open (2) Red Bull (2) Rule (2) Scottish Championships (2) Skycity (2) Sony (2) Styx (2) TV (2) Table Tennis (2) Tine Rasmussen (2) TotalSports (2) Tournamentsoftware.com (2) Video Clip (2) Wales (2) Wilson (2) Wrestling (2) Xbox (2) Yonex Denmark Open 2015 (2) Yonex Open Chinese Taipei 2016 (2) adult video actress (2) mizuno (2) 2014 (1) 2PM (1) ADAMS (1) AFP (1) AKB48 (1) AMD (1) AZIO (1) Abu Dhabi (1) AdSense (1) After School (1) Ajinomoto (1) April Fool (1) Arsene Lupin (1) Atjems Olympic (1) Austrlia (1) Badminon Photo (1) Badminton Europe Confederation (1) BadmintonPhoto (1) Badmintonworldtv (1) Badzine (1) Beast (1) Belgian (1) Belgium (1) Brown Eyed Girls (1) Bulgari (1) CJin Chen (1) CNBlue (1) Candra Wijaya (1) Celtic (1) Changzhou (1) Charity Auction (1) Chia (1) China Maters (1) Chinese Culture (1) Chinese Taaipei (1) Chinese Taiepi (1) Chinese Taipe (1) Chinese Taipei Grand Prix (1) Chinese Taiwan (1) Christmas (1) Cina (1) Citroen (1) Cold (1) Cryptobranchoidea (1) Culture (1) Davichi (1) Denmark Japan (1) Desert Moon (1) Double Happiness (1) Doubles (1) Drama (1) Dress Code (1) Dybai (1) EA Games (1) ESL (1) Echo (1) England Denmark (1) England Premier League (1) Eriko Hirose (1) FFBaD (1) FIBA (1) Facebook (1) Fed (1) Fencing (1) Firefox (1) Flypower (1) French (1) Fu Mingtian (1) Future Series (1) GD Sports (1) German Junior (1) Getty Images (1) Girls Generation (1) Girls' Generation (1) Gold (1) Gosen (1) Granular (1) Great Britian (1) Greek (1) Guangzhou (1) Gudang Garam (1) Hanoi (1) Hera (1) Hokuto (1) Hong Kong Open England (1) Hong Kongk (1) Howard Bach (1) Hye In CHOI (1) IEC (1) ISF (1) Incheon 2014 Asia Games (1) Indexed Tag (1) Indi (1) India Olympic Association (1) Indonesia India (1) Indonesia Malaysia (1) Indonesia Thailand (1) Indonnesia (1) International Challengel (1) Iran (1) Itlay (1) J SPORTS (1) Jamaica (1) Japan Osaka (1) Japn (1) Japna (1) Ji Wook KANG (1) Jordan (1) Julia Pei Xian Wong (1) Kason (1) Kenya (1) KeyHoleTV (1) Koera (1) Koorea (1) Kora (1) Korea Japan (1) Korea Junior Open (1) Kretek (1) Kumpoo (1) LCD (1) LG (1) Liuzhou (1) Live Strea (1) Live Stream. Japan (1) Live Strream (1) Londo (1) London Grand Prix Gold (1) London Open (1) Lonely (1) Looi Suk (1) Lupin (1) MOD (1) Macaau (1) Madame Tussauds (1) Malayais (1) Malaysia Open Malaysia (1) Masters (1) Maxis (1) Microsoft (1) Misaki Matsutomo (1) Mister (1) Miyuki Maeda (1) Mizuki Fujii (1) Movie (1) Music Station (1) NBA (1) NEC (1) NTT EAST (1) Names (1) Nanjing 2014 (1) Narcissus (1) National Sports Games (1) Netherlandss (1) New Zealand Opan (1) News (1) Nozomi Okuhara (1) Nuclear Crisis (1) Optimus (1) Oversea Chinese (1) P.S.男 (1) P.V. Sindhu (1) P2P (1) Pan Am (1) Pi Hongyan (1) Pixar (1) Player of the Year (1) Pretty Girl (1) Price (1) Procter and Gamble (1) Protech (1) Proton Holding (1) Pullela Gopichand (1) Purple League (1) QQ (1) Qualcomm (1) Rainbow (1) Ratchanok Im (1) Ratchanok Intanon (1) Reika Kakiiwa (1) Republic of China (1) Russia Open (1) S1 (1) SEA gmaes (1) SGC (1) Sampoerna (1) Sangmu (1) Sanyo (1) SiStar19 (1) Sina (1) Sinagpore (1) Sinapore (1) Singapore Japan (1) Singpore (1) Strong Heart (1) Suddirman Cup (1) Sudirman (1) Sudirrman Cup (1) Sung Han Kook (1) Sung Ji Hyun (1) Sunrise (1) Super Series Chinese Taipei (1) Super Series Finalsl (1) TVCM (1) Tago Kenichi (1) Tailandd (1) Taiwna (1) Technology (1) Thailand Hong Kong (1) Tina Baun (1) Tokyo (1) Tomorrow FU (1) Tonami (1) Tony Gunawan (1) U15 (1) U17 (1) USA Open (1) United Arab Emirates (1) Uno (1) Videoland (1) Vietnam. (1) Vietnamm (1) Wanna (1) Webzine (1) William Smith Clark (1) Wuhan. (1) Xinhua News (1) YG (1) YG Entertainment (1) Yonex Denmark Open 2016 (1) Yonex Open Japan 2011 (1) Yonex Open Japan 2014. Japan (1) Yonex Open Japan 2016 (1) Young (1) Zeus (1) badmintonworld.tv Super Series Finals (1) baseball (1) basketball (1) central bank (1) club (1) dminton (1) e.nopi (1) f(x) (1) football (1) gambling (1) hina (1) honey (1) iPhone (1) japan. Wang Lin (1) jump rope (1) league games (1) mythology (1) pentathlon (1) programme (1) promotion (1) retirement (1) softball (1) string (1) tennis (1) 優客李林 (1) 陸九淵 (1)

總瀏覽量

網誌存檔

關於我自己

我的相片
家徒四壁, 唯好讀書!

追蹤者