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[轉載]羽壇情侶徐晨潘攀:九年修得同心結 -- 中國《羽毛球》雜誌


設計對白: 馬晉: 跟潘攀吵了嗎? 比賽時怎麼那麼毛躁?!

中國《羽毛球》雜誌2011年8月號 文/劉紫園

 潘攀的左腳腕兒上紋著“panc”4個字母。這是她和徐晨名字的縮寫。她說,紋的時候很疼,那感覺,就像自己和徐晨的愛情一般,刻骨銘心;最近迷上電視劇《裸婚時代》的徐晨突然在一個午夜時分給女友發去一條短信:“親愛的,我真的很愛你。潘攀在的地方,就永遠是徐小晨的家。”——如此甜蜜浪漫的事情,看似只屬於剛剛陷入熱戀的情人,但,我們故事的男女主人公已經相知相愛了9年整。

紀念日上演浪漫求婚

 2011年4月12日讓潘攀永生難忘。這不僅是她和徐晨定情的紀念日,更重要的是,相戀9年的愛人在這天手捧99朵紅玫瑰,單膝跪地,為她戴上了一枚1克拉的鑽戒,正式向她求婚。

 策劃這幕大戲,徐晨絞盡腦汁。兩個人相處久了,對彼此間的一言一行瞭若指掌。怎麼能瞞著女友買個既讓她稱心如意又大小合適的鑽戒是徐晨面臨的首個考驗。恰好 一次逛街時潘攀無意間提起:“戀愛這麼久了,也不見你送我個戒指,要不今天就買了唄。”徐晨趕緊故作鎮靜地搖搖頭:“太早了,明年咱們再考慮結婚吧。”戒指雖然沒買,話題卻順其自然地延展開了。“你喜歡什麼牌子?Cartier還是Tiffany?是一顆裸鑽好看,還是邊上有碎鑽的漂亮一些?”徐晨開始借機套話。潘攀對此卻絲毫沒有察覺,順著男友的話回答:“買那麼貴的沒用,我看I Do的就挺好。”話音未落,兩人正好轉到I Do櫃檯。於是,走進去挑挑試試就變得順理成章。細緻的徐晨趁機將女友心儀的款式和她手指的號碼默記於心。“潘攀的手太細了,而且有碎鑽的款式改圈很困難,要是買了不能戴多可惜啊,所以一定得想辦法讓她先試好。”看到女友沒有識破自己的“詭計”,徐晨徹底把心放進了肚子裏。

悄悄買好戒指後,正式的求婚儀式應運而生。

 4月12日下午,女雙組的姑娘們個個心中納悶——怎麼男雙組訓練完全都不走,一直坐在場地邊看她們打球。這幫臭小子,到底葫蘆裏賣的什麼藥?而即將享受幸福時刻的潘攀更是蒙在鼓裏。那天她練多球練得特別起勁兒,不停讓潘莉指導“再打兩個過來。”

 待到姑娘們結束訓練,男雙隊員統統起身來到女雙場地。還沒等大家醒過味來,只見徐晨捧著一大束頭天藏在倉庫裏的紅玫瑰,徑直朝潘攀走來。“當時我都懵了,本能地反應:那天是我們的紀念日。”這麼多年,徐晨想做的事根本瞞不過潘攀。可關於求婚,她真的一無所知,更沒有半點準備。

 徐晨邊走邊從褲兜裏掏出一枚鑽戒——看著格外眼熟的戒指,潘攀終於恍然大悟,淚如雨下。或許是被突如其來的幸福沖昏了頭腦,徐晨單膝跪地後說了一大串話,潘攀卻一概沒聽清,她甚至連“我願意”也忘了說。事後,徐晨 “抱怨”道:“你怎麼不說同意啊,搞得我很沒面子。而且你這眼淚說流就流,太能演戲了。”

女追男的地下戀

 國羽大軍在四川九寨溝遊玩時,李永波第一次得知徐晨和潘攀已相戀了9年。“是嗎?那你們肯定是早戀啊!”後知後覺的總教練一定要兩人重現一遍求婚場景。“演得好,我就既往不咎了啊。”看著弟子們能修成正果,李永波一改往日的嚴師形象,也變得“八卦”起來。

 徐晨和潘攀談朋友還是兩人剛剛進入國家二隊的事。一個18歲,一個16歲;一個意氣風發,一個情竇初開。最開始,潘攀特別討厭整天“調皮散漫,嗓門巨大”的 徐晨。有點“戀父情結”的她覺得自己應該找個穩重踏實的男朋友。偶爾和小姐妹聊到這些,她總會把嘴一撇:“那個徐晨,以後誰能跟他啊!”

 不料,說嘴打嘴。老天特意給了他倆一個外出比賽在火車上單獨交談的機會。潘攀吃驚地發現:原來瞭解一個人不能只看表面,徐晨其實是個特別懂事、特別體貼的人。先前所有的壞印象被全部推翻,潘攀不知不覺地喜歡上了這個大男孩。

 於是,率真的她決定向徐晨表白,可徐晨竟支支吾吾,沒有明確答復。這讓相信“幸福要靠自己爭取”的潘攀覺得特別有挑戰性,一定要“攻克”下來。終於,徐晨被她的勇氣深深打動,兩人正式確立戀愛關係。不到半年時間,最初女追男的潘攀就成了徐晨經常掛在嘴邊的“領導”。

 當時,隊裏明確規定,20歲以下不准談戀愛。徐晨、潘攀生怕被教練發現,吃飯不敢坐在一起;約會通常都是一個先走,另一個隔五六分鐘再出門。二隊隊員不允許用手機,他倆只有每天訓練時能找機會說上幾句話。兩個單純的少男少女,只要能在一起就覺得很開心。

 俗話說,沒有不透風的牆。潘攀的父母很快得知消息,堅決反對女兒“早戀”。擔心女兒感情受傷害,再加上徐晨的淘氣出了名,“口碑”不太好,更加深了潘爸潘媽對他的壞印象。面對父母的阻攔,潘攀沒有多說什麼,她用堅持告訴父母,自己和徐晨不是在胡鬧。終於,在一次比賽現場,徐晨和女友的父母來了個“遭遇戰”。 這次見面雖不正式,但潘攀的爸媽對女兒的男朋友有了新的認識。

 如今,兩人還沒領證,徐晨口中的潘叔叔已經變成了“老爸”,兩家人也經常在過年時相聚一堂。結婚過日子,對於徐晨、潘攀乃至他們的家人來說,都成了水到渠成的事。

事業上相互扶持

 潘攀眼中的徐晨是個懂得生活的人,和他在一起永遠不會覺得乏味。

 一次逛街時,徐晨忽然說:“我要去趟超市,你自己先隨便逛逛。”不一會兒,他捧著一大束白玫瑰來找潘攀。“今天是什麼日子?7月1號,黨的生日你也要送我花啊?”女友的反應讓徐晨哭笑不得,“今天是我們在一起整整第3000天,我算好了的。”徐晨的話音未落,潘攀的臉上已經驚一陣喜一陣地變了好幾個表情。

 不過,徐晨也會鬧脾氣鑽牛角尖。2008年,正值事業上升期的他滿心認為自己鐵定能代表中國隊出戰湯姆斯杯,可他卻落選了。一時想不開,他把心一橫:退役! 說什麼也不打了!潘攀知道男友的脾氣,瞭解他是個徹頭徹尾的“順毛驢”。在這個節骨眼上,越是跟他說不能退,他越要擰巴著來。於是,潘攀每天陪著徐晨聊東聊西,就是不聊羽毛球。她在幫男友排遣心中鬱悶的同時,也爭取到時間,讓徐晨冷靜下來好好思考。

 2011年,為了順應奧運會的需求,徐晨由主攻男雙改為主攻混雙。和馬晉配對不久,這對新組合便一舉拿下了全英公開賽冠軍。5月份的蘇迪曼杯,他倆更是在驚心動魄的半決賽中,神奇逆轉了韓國勁敵高成炫/河貞恩。場邊助陣的潘攀一直合掌默念:我要相信徐晨!我要相信徐晨!當大比分定格在2比1、徐晨跪地慶祝的一刹那,潘攀再也抑制不住激動的淚水。她知道,徐晨永遠是自己心中的驕傲。

 "9"這個數字在中國傳統文化中擁有最為美好的寓意:九九歸一,天長地久。經歷了9年的愛情馬拉松,徐晨和潘攀總會被人問:你們在一起那麼長時間,還有感覺嗎? 而兩人總是肯定地回答:當然有!時間讓我們學會更加關心對方;遇到挫折,兩個人並肩承受;默契心生,有時只要一個眼神,便知對方所想。我們是彼此生活中不 可缺少的一部分,是最最親的人。

 今年的8月6日正值七夕佳節,對於相愛的人,這是個約會慶祝的好由頭。然而,去倫敦參加世錦賽的徐晨卻無法陪潘攀度過美好的一天。相隔兩地,潘攀不會寂寞。她要做好徐晨的堅強後盾。不僅現在,這一輩子都將如此……

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