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[轉載]鍾倩欣媽媽恨不得趕緊幫女兒找個男友 -- 廣州日報

中國《廣州日報》8 月 6 日 記者: 楊敏

鍾媽媽最上心的事:趕緊找個男朋友拍拖吧
 “90後”廣州籍國手鐘倩欣搭上世錦賽末班車

 與多年才出一個女單冠軍謝杏芳、男單主力王睜茗所不同, 廣州這座羽毛球之城盛產女雙冠軍,, 從關渭貞到勞玉晶, 從林燕芬到張潔雯. 如今, 廣州女雙的希望寄託在一名“90後”身上, 她是國家隊三號女雙主力鍾倩欣. 這位廣州妹去年經歷了運動生涯以來最嚴重的傷病, 原以為要與家門口的世錦賽遺憾地擦肩而過 了, 沒想到還是幸運地擠上末班車. “能以球員的身份參加廣州舉行的世錦賽, 也許在我的運動生涯中也就這一次.” 作為鐘倩欣的媽媽, 王麗娜曾是一名女足健將, 她深知女運動員的不容易, 因此, 這位慈母從來不給女兒成績上的壓力, 最讓她上心的, 反而是女兒何時才能談一次戀愛。


遺傳運動員媽媽的基因: 蜜罐裡長大,不愛芭蕾愛運動

 鍾倩欣是在蜜罐裡長大的廣州女孩, 父母從小待她如掌上明珠, 無憂無慮的成長環境, 塑造出她樂天開朗的性格. 媽媽王麗娜是女足運動員, 雖然最好成績只是代表過廣州市參加全省的比賽, 但她的運動天賦遺傳到了女兒身上. “女兒小時候學過芭蕾舞, 那是她唯一留長髮的日子.” 記者看著王麗娜提供的鍾倩欣童年照, 實在無法與現在賽場上那個英姿颯爽的女孩聯繫到一起.

 “她小時候很女孩的, 但是偏偏不愛芭蕾舞, 反而跑步比男孩都快, 老是來回向我們報告, 在學校的運動會跑步贏了男同學.” 眼見女兒的運動細胞如此發達. 夫妻倆決定把她送去打羽毛球. “她爸爸說, 如果是男孩, 就送去踢足球, 女孩打羽毛球斯文一些.” 就這樣, 鍾倩欣拿起了球拍, 她的球感很好, 連連受到教練的表揚, 從廣州市的冠軍打到全省的冠軍, 後來在世青賽拿了女雙冠軍, 最終入選國家隊。

鍾倩欣進入國家一隊後, 與包宜鑫的配對愈發默契, 兩人的世界排名一路攀升. 眼見一切朝著美好的方向發展, 王麗娜憧憬著女兒有機會代表國家隊參加尤伯盃、蘇迪曼盃與世錦賽, 突然, 去年年末在羽超聯賽的意外受傷給鍾倩欣的運動前景蒙上一層陰影. “那是在惠州主場的比賽, 我和她爸爸都在現場, 突然一下, 她滑倒在地, 診斷的結果是半月板斷裂, 我當場眼淚就掉下來了。”

 國家隊安排鍾倩欣返回北京進行手術, 都準備上手術臺了, 李永波總教練聞訊之後當機立斷——赴德國手術. 就這樣, 鍾倩欣在幾天內辦好了赴德的全部手續, 在一名翻譯的陪同下遠赴慕尼克旁邊的小城奧格斯堡, 展開了將近兩個月的康復治療. 由於事發突然, 王麗娜沒有來得及辦理手續赴德陪伴女兒, “女兒長這麼大都沒有受過如此嚴重的傷, 也沒有一個人去過那麼遠的地方, 她因為這個事情, 成熟了許多。”

 鍾倩欣告訴記者, 她早在 2011 年底就看到廣州成功申辦世錦賽的新聞, “當時期待著有機會參賽, 可去年受傷後, 我覺得這已變成一個遙不可及的夢了.”  在德國治療初期, 她很沮喪, 後來康復治療的進展良好, 認識了一些朋友, 鍾倩欣也漸漸地找回了信心, “這次受傷耽誤了寶貴的半年, 但對我的鍛鍊很大, 尤其是心態上.” 上個月的美國公開賽是鍾倩欣康復後參加的首個國際比賽, 出發前, 教練告訴她, 世錦賽報上名了, “那一刻的興奮和激動, 我也不知道怎麼表達, 加上 後來在美國拿了冠軍, 我覺得過去的辛苦都是值得的。”


短髮女生愛撒嬌,被媽媽催著早拍拖

 女兒回廣州比賽, 這對於王麗娜來說是近期的頭等大事. 這邊鍾倩欣才剛下飛機, 她的愛心靚湯已準備就緒. “國家隊規定, 隊員不能在外面吃飯. 即使給她準備的湯水, 也是不能有豬、牛肉的.” 剛回來的幾天, 鍾倩欣晚飯後大約有一個小時的空暇, 夫婦二人就把晚飯的地點安排在國家隊下榻的酒店附近. “她不能吃. 坐著陪陪我們, 不過我們很滿足了.” 別看鍾倩欣一頭短髮, 其實性格溫和, 有時覺得媽媽的叮囑太繁瑣了還會撒嬌. “我父母經常在同一件事情上持相反的意見, 雖然他們老一輩人的想法和我不 一樣, 但和他們相處很舒服, 就像朋友一樣, 我什麼都跟他們說。”

 就以拍拖為例, 鍾倩欣的爸爸認為女兒現在年紀還小, 不著急. 媽媽王麗娜可不是這樣想的, “也不小了, 都 23 了, 是時候談戀愛了. 我跟女兒說, 談戀愛不是一次就能成功的, 總要積累一點失敗的經驗. 但她看到身邊有朋友失戀後傷心 得死去活來, 被嚇到了, 不敢嘗試.” 她看到身邊一些朋友也開始給同齡的子女張羅相親, 也想為女兒找個對象. 鍾倩欣得知之後馬上阻止: “打住! 什麼年代了!  我跟他們說, 順其自然就好了.” 她還是希望把主要精力放在打球上, 至於男朋友, 隨緣吧。

 女婿沒找到, 王麗娜還考慮了女兒將來的住所, “要是經濟條件允許, 我們想將來和女兒住在同一個社區. 我們跟她分開的時間太長了, 以後有機會一定要住得很近。”


自爆是周杰倫鐵粉, 喜歡彈吉他

  王麗娜告訴記者, 女兒最欣賞歌手周杰倫, 不過當年在國家青年隊時, 崇拜韓國隊男雙主力李龍大. 鍾鐘倩欣知道此事後哭笑不得: “我是告訴媽媽, 有很多女孩喜歡李龍大, 不是我啊, 我更欣賞印尼隊 2008 年北京奧運會男雙金牌選手亨德拉.” 不過, 鍾倩欣承認自己是周杰倫的鐵粉, 他的歌基本上都會唱. “我並不是不愛跳舞唱歌, 只是不喜歡芭蕾舞, 我還喜歡彈吉他, 最擅長的是《月亮代表我的心》.” 不過, 因為常年訓練和比賽, 她的吉他課程學完了最基礎的部分就不得不被 打斷了。

 記者問鍾倩欣, 會不會因為廣州盛產女雙冠軍, 因而承受著一定的壓力. 她回答, 以前會, 但在經歷了受傷後重返賽場反而放寬心了.  “我知道要為廣州女雙爭氣, 不過, 我沒有太大的壓力, 父母都在給我研究抽籤結果, 我自己卻很坦然.” 王麗娜打心底裡希望女兒有朝一日能站在世界比賽的最高領獎臺上, 但她從來沒有跟女兒說過, “我踢過足球, 知道女運動員不容易, 老實說, 她還是趕緊拍拖找個男朋友吧.” 如果鍾倩欣看到這一句, 一定又在一邊撓牆, 一邊對媽媽無語了。

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