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2012年9月6日 星期四

[轉載] 林丹與謝杏芳的愛情故事 -- 新浪體育 (Part 1)

 北京時間9月23日,林丹將與謝杏芳步入婚姻殿堂,而關於這對羽壇神雕俠侶的愛情故事也是讓人羡慕不已,為此,新浪體育參考林丹自傳《直到世界盡頭》撰寫成以下的愛情故事。

第一集《初見》

  是怎樣的緣分,才會讓兩個人一路走來變成一家人?林丹自己透露,他和謝杏芳的愛情幾乎是貫穿了他的整個職業生涯,當林丹第一看看到謝杏芳第一眼時,就已對她一見鍾情。

  林丹第一次見到謝杏芳是1998年,當時只有15歲的他在打全國青少年錦標賽時,在看臺上看比賽時,偶然間看到了一個來自於廣東隊女隊員的比賽,後來他知道她叫謝杏芳。對於阿芳的第一印象,林丹記得她是一頭俐落的短髮,而且個頭很高,腿長。

  對於這樣一名女隊員,林丹當時並沒有什麼非分之想,他瞭解到對方比自己還大幾歲,而且和自己不是一批的選手,另外他也覺得謝杏芳當時肯定有男朋友了,所以就逐漸把這事淡忘了。

  也許緣分就是天註定的,後來林丹在福州的銅盤基地訓練,接到教練的通知,說有一批國家青年隊的隊員過來訓練,備戰亞青賽,林丹等一些打得比較好的隊員做好陪練的準備。

  就是這一次,林丹與謝杏芳重逢,而且巧合的是教練安排林丹做謝杏芳的陪練。兩人一打就是一下午,從2點到4點,不過據林丹回憶,當時兩人只是默默打球、撿球,並沒有聊天,更不可能說要彼此的電話號碼了。

  這一次與謝杏芳的近距離接觸,林丹形容為被“秒到”,人生中第一次知道“暗戀”的滋味。但是之後兩人在5年內都沒有什麼進展,用林丹的話來說,“老天把她帶到我的面前,卻沒有告訴我故事該如何繼續。”

  林丹也透露,真正要到謝杏芳的電話,是5年之後的事了

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第二集《約會》

  從與謝杏芳“相約98”到進一步發展兩人的關係,林丹等了五年的時間才終於等到了機會。期間林丹也於2000年入選國家隊,但是因為生性調皮,所以林丹為了在隊中站穩位置,每天都是誠惶誠恐、緊張中度過。

  直到2003年,林丹通過努力,終於開始慢慢佔據男單主力的位置,而這也讓他能夠與朝思暮想的謝杏芳有了天天見面的機會。林丹自己形容這段經歷,“老天好像才又重新想起我這個被‘遺忘’的小孩”。

  誰是第一個知道林丹追謝杏芳的人呢?林丹清楚的記得是時任福建晉江基地祖昌體育館的館長張漢民。

  也是2003年,國家隊備戰第二年的湯尤杯,來到晉江基地,因為林丹是福建人,因此和集訓體育館館長張漢民很熟。而這次國家隊住的宿舍又是和張漢民的家在一棟樓裏,也為林丹追謝杏芳提供了很大的便利。

  體育館所處的位置比較偏僻,出門不方便,正好張漢民有一輛摩托車,經常帶著隊員出去購物買東西,而林丹自然是張漢民摩托車的常客。

  年底的隊內晚會上,大家表演了節目,同時也有抽獎環節,謝杏芳幸運的抽到了一部手機,而林丹的好運也就此開始。

  因為謝杏芳之前曾說過想為自己老爸換個手寫手機,因此,林丹就抓住這個機會,自告奮勇替她跑一趟。而這次,又是張漢民開著摩托車載著林丹去店家換的,至此,張漢民也知道了林丹追謝杏芳的秘密。

  張漢民知道他倆的好事後,就直接開玩笑的稱謝杏芳為“秋香姐”,笑稱林丹買啥都是送給“秋香姐”的。而林丹與謝杏芳的“曖昧”期也就此開始。

  在通過換手機時,林丹也終於要得謝杏芳的手機號,後來在集訓快結束時,林丹決定進一步行動,約阿芳出來吃飯。

  還是張漢民的那輛摩托車,林丹載著謝杏芳,享受著第一次屬於他們倆的二人時光。最後,他們在一家日本料理店開始了第一次的約會。

  林丹的表白也是很直接,在簡單的聊了會之後,林丹就開玩笑的問謝杏芳有沒有男友,謝杏芳也很爽快的回答沒有。聽到這樣的回覆,林丹自然是心裏一陣樂,繼續開玩笑說,“我也沒女朋友。”嬉皮笑臉之相很明顯。用林丹自己的話形容就是“屌絲”形象躍然眼前。

  晉江這頓飯之後,林丹與謝杏芳也不再是普通朋友關係了。而回到北京之後的第一次約會,林丹有些緊張得後怕了,為了掩人耳目,林丹約謝杏芳打車出來,天壇公寓附近會合,結果兩人剛上車,就被一個人的電話“騷擾”,沒有說謊經驗的林丹被一陣質問之後,行蹤還是暴露了,不過電話那頭的人是自己的好哥們--蔡贇.

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第三集《保衛戰》

  林丹謝杏芳的愛情之路就此開始,受到愛情滋潤的林丹也開始在國際賽場呼風喚雨,2004年年初連奪瑞士和全英兩站冠軍,並穩坐男單世界第一寶座。

  在林丹看來,他和謝杏芳的感情也只是出於萌芽狀態,不過媒體卻將他們放大為羽壇“神雕俠侶”。而兩人的愛情之路卻是走的很艱辛,因為謝杏芳大林丹3歲的年齡差,外界並不看好,甚至是潑得一盆盆冷水。

  面對如此境遇,林丹知道,要保護好這段來之不易的感情,必須通過自己的努力。因此他很拼命的在隊中表現,在成為隊中主力之後,教練也開始對他倆睜一隻眼閉一隻眼,不過也不希望他們表現得太明顯。在林丹看來,教練這樣“放縱”他們也是有原因,因為他們根本就不好這段愛情。

  當全世界都不看好這段感情時,林丹毅然決然的站了出來,有了保護謝杏芳的衝動和責任。當時年僅21歲的他開始成為謝杏芳的“保護傘”,為她遮風擋雨。林丹也曾向阿芳表示,“你放心,我會用我的成績保護好我們的愛情。”

  04年的湯尤杯上,一張照片讓林丹和謝杏芳的戀情曝光於公眾面前。林丹和前來為男隊加油的女隊一起在看臺上觀看比賽,疑似林丹親吻謝杏芳的照片就媒體抓拍到。但林丹解釋,那是自己在和謝杏芳交流,因為現場太吵,所以她俯下身來聽自己說話,這個鏡頭就被媒體誤認為是親吻。

  就是在媒體的狂轟亂炸之下,林丹和謝杏芳的感情依舊穩固,直到雅典奧運會之後,一切都有所改變。雅典奧運會上,林丹遭遇滑鐵盧,首輪爆冷出局,輸球的那一夜,林丹徹夜未眠,與謝杏芳越洋短信交流,而林丹甚至發短信把手指都摁腫了。

  面對媒體的追問,林丹並沒有遮遮掩掩,而是大方的將自己與阿芳的戀情公佈了。在他看來,自己不是藝人,不需要用虛偽的外衣來包裝自己,其次年輕人談戀愛是再正常不過的事情。

  珍惜眼前擁有的,反而活得自在快樂,年輕人就是要堅持自己想做的事情,即使有一天受傷了,付出慘痛的代價,那至少也是自己的選擇。林丹始終這麼堅持自己的想法,最後他成功了。

  林丹評價自己,性格中帶著點“好萊塢式”英雄主義的。回首當年,慶幸21歲時的林丹有這份勇氣、執著和擔當,心中只有一個念頭——不被看好就不被看好,我就是喜歡她。


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 [轉載] 林丹與謝杏芳的愛情故事 -- 新浪體育 (Part 2)

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