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2012年9月27日 星期四

[轉載]林丹自傳連載24: "烏龍"事件導致吉新鵬離隊

中國上海《東方體育日報》9月27日連載:

第13章: 奧運在即 謗滿天下

韓國的風波才平息不久,我們去福建晉江備戰當年的湯尤盃,結果又爆發了所謂的“毆師門”。我一下子又被媒體當做是“壞小子”,成了羽毛球隊的“惡人”。事情的過程很蹊蹺。當時我們在訓練館打了一次隊內比賽。比賽結束後的第三天,突然有媒體報導說:“林丹當眾拳打教練吉新鵬。”因為忙於訓練,我壓根就不知道這個新聞。直到在晉江接到無數電話,都還感覺莫名其妙。

  其實這是很小的一件事。那天打湯杯的模擬賽,全隊被分成兩組。比如說我、諶龍、杜鵬宇三個人加兩對男雙,我們是A組。B組的男單有陳金、鮑春來等。 比賽打到第5場,是雙方的第三單打。這時諶龍贏了,那自然就是我們A組贏嘍。結果鐘波教練搞錯了,他把諶龍算作B組的人,宣佈B組獲勝。當時我們這些已經打完的隊員正在場邊休息,突然教練宣佈我們輸了,那肯定就急了,就上去跟他們複盤。當時每個人都很投入地在打這場比賽,突然間說我們輸了,肯定不願意,肯定急嘛。何況如果諶龍是B組的隊員,豈不是變成我們在給對手加油了?說實話,我也不是性格特別溫和的那種人,當時就遠遠地喊了一句:“怎麼可能呢?”

  事情本來根本怪不到吉新鵬,他是助理教練,也不是排兵佈陣的那一個,他當時只是負責宣佈結果。我這麼一喊,他可能也有點茫然。他也不客氣,就跟我吵。兩個人嗓門都不小,在場的媒體都轉過頭來看。這時候,鐘波已經反應過來是他弄錯了,也不作聲,但是當時已經收不住了。因為很多媒體都在,誰都不可能有很過分的言語,只是雙方的態度都不太好。說來也是不巧,如果當時只有我們隊員自己在,可能吵吵就過去了,也沒什麼事。可當著媒體的面,我跟吉新鵬這麼一嚷嚷,他作為奧運冠軍,又是教練,肯定覺得面子上掛不住。

  誰都以為事情就這麼過去了,第二天也確實沒怎樣。誰知第三天,突然有媒體,而且是當天不在場的深圳一家媒體突然曝出這樣的消息,那不是很奇怪嗎?當時局面有點失控。因為那時候這件事已經被炒作成不是林丹自己的事了,而演變成整個羽毛球隊的一起惡性事件,甚至有人開始攻擊李導,指責隊伍管理鬆散。李導這才發現有點不對勁了,就找到吉新鵬,說:“這時候你必須出面解釋一些事情,因為已經傷害到隊伍了。”但是吉新鵬說:“我要徵求一下我家人的意見。”

  然後誰也想不到,他居然就這麼消失了。打電話關機,人也不在隊裏。隊伍正集訓的時候,他就突然離開了兩三天,誰也找不到他。

  這件事情越鬧越大,全隊都特別不高興。因為這本來也沒多大個事,完全可以內部解決的。李導就跟我講:“這段時間你可能會不太好過,因為很多矛頭都會指向你。但你還是要好好備戰,別因為這些事情太過分心。”從他的言語中我發現,那會兒李導已經有點傷心了,吉新鵬畢竟是他培養過的運動員,怎麼能置隊伍于不顧,平白無故地失蹤兩三天呢?

  我自己就更加想不通了。2007年底我們在珠海集訓的時候,吉新鵬就住我隔壁,每天都來我房間打牌。那時候他跟鐘導一起住,晚上吃完飯也沒什麼事,就到我房間說:“來,炸一鍋。”那會兒我們打連珠炮,幾乎天天都在一起。到了2008年集訓的時候,不知道為什麼突然間就鬧了這麼一出。

  幾天後,吉新鵬更新了他的博客。在這篇名為《我的回答》的博文中,他寫道:“4月8日,林丹與我發生了一些不愉快,昨天下午林丹已對我作出道歉!為了國家利益、為了隊伍安定團結,我不希望影響備戰奧運,這件事情已經過去了。謝謝球迷朋友對我的關心,讓我們安心備戰奧運!感謝大家!

  吉新鵬是我的前輩,悉尼奧運會男單冠軍,大家都叫他“老吉”。老吉在羽毛球隊算得上是一段傳奇。他參加悉尼奧運會是最後5分鐘才定下來的。本來教練選的是陳宏,不是他。而他的職業生涯就獲得過兩個冠軍,一個日本公開賽冠軍,一個奧運冠軍。這就是他的命,你不服不行。

  後來事情調查清楚後,聽說也許是當晚回去後,吉新鵬給家裏人打電話,可能說的是:“今天特別不舒服,跟林丹吵起來了。”甚至可能說到了“小隊員還想上來動手”。結果消息被捅給了不知情的媒體,一個小火苗最後被擴大成一場災難。頭兒(李永波)後來也問吉新鵬:“你瞭解你的家人嗎?”

  出了這樣的事情,最受傷的肯定還是隊伍。我們都是中國隊培養起來的,可因為這樣一件事,在隊伍需要他的時候,他選擇了消失,最終傷害了他和隊伍之間的感情。我作為一個年輕隊員,跟老大哥說話有點激動自然有我的不對,但這都是家事,可以關起門來說的。最可惜的是,老吉人不壞,可是最終卻不得不離開國家隊。因為全隊都知道了這件事,隊員很難再跟他心貼心地交流。教練和隊員之間失去了信任,就沒有辦法再合作。這對隊伍、對他而言都是損失。

  等這件事再過去5年甚至更長時間後,老吉可能也不會再去計較我們之間當時的一些不愉快。只是,他肯定沒有想到,會因為這麼件小事,他的人生會發生這樣的改變。

  北京奧運會後,我也一再跟媒體說,我一直想用我所能取得的成就告訴大家,我不光球打得好,也是個非常健康的運動員。我不是別人以為的那樣,拿了冠軍就覺得了不起了,就會衝動,甚至打教練,根本不是那樣。

  經過這些爭吵也好、誤解也罷,我也在反思:時代不同了,教練與隊員之間溝通的方式也發生了巨變。以前小的時候,我們被教練踢上兩腳,或者教練上來搧搧你,那都很常見。家長還恨不得拍手稱快:“好,教練管得嚴。”當然,我也承認,管教嚴厲對男孩子是有好處的。但是面對現在的年輕人,千萬不能用這樣的姿態跟他們交流。他們根本就不屑。他直接頂你一句“世界冠軍有什麼了不起的”,你就沒話說了。只有先跟他們交上朋友,用更巧妙的手段讓他們信任你,他們自然而然願意與你交心。對待不同性格的小孩,你還不能一鍋粥煮了大家一起吃,那樣效果肯定不好。

  在我看來,一個教練手下最多帶三個運動員就頂到天了,不能再多。一碗水,你讓大家都喝一點,那只能是解渴。但科學的訓練,隊員需要的不僅僅是解渴,他要的是教練幫他補充需要的“微量元素”。那就完全不一樣了。因為你的創意和精力都是有限的。而我們目前的情況多數時候還是一個主教練帶10名隊員,那樣的效果也只能如此。只有做到一對一、精對精,訓練才會更有效果,更有針對性。所以,我們還有很大的上升空間。

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