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2012年6月6日 星期三

[轉載]林丹父母: 染髮紋身都不同意 盼他年底大事“禮成”

中國天津《每日快報》記者 蘇婭輝

 5月20日,2012年湯尤盃賽拉開大幕。當晚在中國男隊的比賽中圓滿完成一單任務後,林丹在微博上發了一張和爸爸媽媽的合影。這是林丹的湯盃十年,這是他的第六次湯盃之旅。這一次,他的目標既是幫助中國男團實現五連冠的偉業,也是衝擊自己的第16個世界冠軍。而這,也很可能是他的最後一屆湯盃賽。在這樣一個特殊的時刻,他的父母要在現場親眼見證。

 5月21日中午,在林丹父母下榻的酒店房間客廳,在嫋嫋的福建鐵觀音的茶香中,丹媽和記者聊起了林丹的點點滴滴。剛剛吃過午飯的林丹到父母房間“報到”,他和記者打過招呼後,和父親到了房間裡。父子間簡單交流過後,父親叮囑他要好好休息,認真訓練,隨後林丹就回到運動員房間休息,為下午的訓練儲備能量了。正是午飯時間,於是,在林丹乾爹的安排下,我們的交談地點也從酒店房間轉移到了酒店附近的一家飯店。武漢風味的飯菜,德國黑啤,菊花茶。丹爸說的第一句話就是,喝酒可別開車呀。丹媽則只喝茶。


不管他飛得高不高, 只問他飛得累不累

 當別人把目光瞄向林丹到底能拿多少冠軍的時候,丹爸丹媽則更關心他的身體累不累,壓力大不大。而林丹則是那種很認真的人,無論是訓練還是比賽,都一絲不苟。“這一晃都十多年了,其實每次比賽他都有壓力,都要有好的狀態,比賽就要有好成績。他訓練很自覺,也很能吃苦。教練制定的訓練計劃完成後,他還會在戶外進行至少一小時的放鬆訓練。有時候覺得自己練的不到位,還要主動加練。在北京的時候,等他練好回到家的時候,都8點多了。”

 林丹聰明,這一點從小時候就體現出來了。“他小時候挺淘氣的,和一般小孩不太一樣,點子特別多,很靈,大家都願意和他玩。有一次,一幫小孩一起扔鞋子,結果把鞋子掛在了槓子上,有些小孩就哭了,不知道怎麼辦了。他不哭,脫掉另一隻鞋子,往槓子上彈,一下一下的,上面那隻鞋子就掉下來了。騎單車過坎兒的時候,別人都下車,他提車把直接過。我問他,車不會壞嗎?他說,‘我輕’。”丹媽說,林丹雖然淘氣,但是從來不和別人打架惹禍。“他那會兒從來沒給我們惹過麻煩,最多就是揪揪女同學辮子上的蝴蝶結,或者和同桌爭一下‘三八線’。他嘴巴甜,老師也都喜歡他。”在國羽的春晚上,林丹還曾經彈鋼琴,明星氣味十足。丹媽說,小時候給林丹買過電子琴。也正是因為那架電子琴,才發現了林丹左撇子的特質。“他當時只會用左手彈,右手不會,那怎麼練呀?後來一想,乾脆就打球算了。阿丹的太奶奶、奶奶、小姑、舅舅都是左手,他是遺傳了這些人(的基因)。”

 林丹一年級的時候,福建省少體校教練到學校選苗子,羽毛球教練看中了林丹。同時,體操隊教練也看中了他。那時候林丹個子矮,丹媽擔心練體操長不高,最終決定讓他練羽毛球。“從少體校到八一隊再到國家隊,林丹的個子都是最矮的。剛到部隊的時候,他的軍裝都大,我都要給他別起來,後來長個兒了,衣服都短了。”從9歲進入福州少體校,到12歲進入八一隊,再到18歲進入國家隊,林丹在父母身邊的日子實在是太少了。“在少體校的時候,離我們老家也有幾百公里的距離,外婆在福州,每周去看他。給他帶去米粉、粉乾和他愛吃的花蛤、海蚌。到了部隊,我們就完全把他交給高主任了(高路江),我們放心。他從18歲就開始一個人闖北京了,對於我們來說,感覺就是他的成績越好,離我們越遠了。偶爾春節放假回家,感覺屁股還沒坐熱就又走了。”

 林丹進入八一隊,有總教練高路江的照顧,父母自然很放心。而林丹和高路江還真是有緣分,後來高指導兩口子就認了林丹當乾兒子。“那時候他們還沒有孩子,高指導的妻子看到林丹很喜歡,就說要認乾兒子。當時林丹的奶奶還在,還有他的父母,我們一起吃飯,就是在飯桌上認的,也沒有什麼儀式。”丹爸回憶說,當時林丹似乎還不願意,說自己有爸媽,幹嘛要認乾爹乾媽?但是高路江的說法卻是另一個版本:“因為之前我們已經認了一個乾兒子,再說認他的時候,他就不高興了,說你們已經認了別人了,那意思就是有點兒吃醋吧。他叫乾媽,但是不習慣叫乾爹,還是叫職務多一些,畢竟我們都在部隊。”


火爆丹溫柔芳, 小兩口很互補

 林丹是個很有性格的運動員,丹媽說,林丹的性格像丹爸,急脾氣,會爆發,但是很快就過去了。而謝杏芳的性格是那種極其溫柔的,正好和林丹形成互補,所以再合適不過。“阿芳人好,性格也好,特別溫柔、細心,和阿丹在一起最合適。有時候一起出去吃飯,阿芳是女孩子嘛,出去總要好好收拾一下,阿丹開始時就會著急,但是後來我看也不急了,這就是磨合。而且,這生活中性格就得這樣搭配着來。其實在晉江集訓的時候,阿芳就和我們熟了。2008年北京奧運會後,她的父母也來我們家一起過年了,我們也去過她家。”對父母,林丹很孝順。早在2004年的時候,他就在上杭老家為父母買了一套180平方米的新房。現在,父母又跟他長住北京。“老家的朋友們都很羡慕我們,都說我們是北京人了。”

 今年全英公開賽期間,林丹右小臂處多了一處紋身——FF,就是謝杏芳的名字芳芳的縮寫。4月份青島亞錦賽期間,又在右上臂處多了一處文身——until the end of time,中文的意思是,直到時間的盡頭。加之小臂處的“雙F”,這顯然是對妻子愛的承諾。就紋身的事情,丹爸還很認真地和他談過。“別沒事就弄紋身什麼的,愛情的見證不一定非要這樣,你看我和你媽媽的感情,那都在心裏,也沒像你這樣非要弄在皮膚上。”而林丹自然和父母那個年代的人不一樣,他的愛不僅在心中,也要通過紋身這種特殊的方式大膽表達出來。丹爸的思想自然是比林丹傳統,比如對他將皮膚曬成古銅色這件事,就不是太贊同。“我和他說了,又不是娛樂明星,幹嘛要弄成這樣?偶爾一次兩次好玩就得了,不能總弄,萬一對皮膚有傷害怎麼辦?”當然,兒子已經長大了,做父母的也不能“強制”。不過,在適當的時候,他們總會提出一些建議,不為別的,就是為了幫林丹把好關,讓他能夠更好地發展。

 從當初轟轟烈烈的愛情,到2010年底的低調領證,“丹芳戀”還需要一場婚禮儀式的見證。由於忙於備戰倫敦奧運會,林丹只能將婚禮的事情拖後了。之前曾經有消息稱,丹媽希望婚禮會在明年“五一”。但是,丹媽說,那是對方聽錯了。“說‘五一’結婚那是聽錯了,不可能。應該奧運會之後就會舉行,現在酒店還沒有定,等奧運會之後再定。無論是作為我們父母,還是阿芳來說,都已經等了這麼多年,不在乎再多等這會兒了。大家都希望他能夠在倫敦收穫一個完美的結局,然後在年底之前把婚禮舉行了。”林丹父母這個年齡的人,很多都已經做了爺爺奶奶或者姥爺姥姥,可是由於林丹職業的特殊性,他們也只能將這份期待埋在心底,然後耐心等待。丹爸說,早就著急當爺爺了,但還是尊重他的工作,等他一切都圓滿了,再考慮這些也不遲。

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馬來西亞"無羽能比"引自劉希平先生的新浪微博, 以上是中國隊在泰國曼谷練球的照片, 林丹染髮.

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