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[轉載]雲龍風虎行天下 -- 蔡贇/傅海峰的成長故事(之三)

3、打罵中學會做人道理

 童年時曾流行過一首兒歌, 有句歌詞這樣寫道:“哪個爸爸不罵人,哪個孩子不挨打。打是親來罵是愛,哪個也是好爸爸。”傅銘英便是這樣的嚴父。脾氣好時,任由傅海峰怎樣折騰都無妨; 可發起怒來,輕則耳提面命,重則棍棒相向。傅海峰常說,自己的性格因父親的教育方式產生了重大變化。而在傅銘英的意識裏,父母的打與罵,都是為了讓兒子更 深刻地記住做人的道理。

 曾經有一次,不愛早起的傅海峰一反常態,淩晨4點多便被幾個玩伴叫出家門。手忙腳亂的他,隨手抓起件衣服,甚至沒有洗漱,口中答應著:“來啦!來啦!”便跑了出去。母親覺得好生蹊蹺:平時必須推推搡搡才肯起床的兒子,今天怎麼如此利索。再說,這麼早,天都沒亮, 外面黑漆漆的,他們要去幹什麼?

 清晨8點多,傅海峰帶著一臉得意回到家裏,原本乾淨的衣服不知在哪兒蹭滿了灰塵。只見他從口袋裏掏出 一把尚未成熟的芭樂,美滋滋地說:“媽,拿這個入鹽,好吃。”“果子還沒熟呢。你這是從哪兒弄來的啊?”林銀嬋追問道。小海峰忽然語塞起來,想了半天, 才支支吾吾解釋道:“在人家院外撿的,他們不要了。”言罷,便一溜煙跑進屋裏。

 由於著急去幹活,林銀嬋沒有追問。哪知到了農場,恰好趕上一位婦女在訴苦,逢人便講她家沒有長熟的芭樂不知道被誰打落了許多。回想起早上發生的一幕幕,林銀嬋似乎明白了什麼。收工後,她把兒子叫到身邊“對 質”。傅海峰雖然調皮,但卻不會撒謊。母親幾句話問下來,他便面紅耳赤,前言不搭後語,無奈之下,終於“招供”,承認是自己和小夥伴約好,爬到樹上偷果子。他苦苦央求母親,千萬不要告訴父親,否則自己又會被打。

 然而,傅銘英最終還是知道了這件事。小海峰沒能躲過這頓“暴揍”。他永遠都記著父親怒不可遏地對他說:“你再怎麼淘氣都沒關係,但偷東西是品質問題,死都不能做。”


4、醜娃娃和愛哭鬼

 5歲那年,傅海峰的童真世界多了一個小生命,這便是他的妹妹傅海妮。

 那是一個悠長的中午。父親外出工作,留下沒去上幼稚園的傅海峰獨自守著已懷胎十月的母親。林銀嬋從早晨7點多就感覺不適。隨著骨盆的開裂,陣痛間距逐漸縮短,疼痛時間卻在拉長,並愈演愈烈。而小小的傅海峰對這一切渾然不知。

 吃過午飯,倦意來襲。傅海峰坐在床邊,兩眼發緊。

 忽然,母親的喊聲驅散團團瞌睡蟲。“海峰!海峰!”“小夥子”心裏一驚,急得跳了起來:“怎麼回事!媽,你怎麼啦!”看著母親滿臉痛楚,額頭滲滿黃豆大 小的汗珠,傅海峰被嚇壞了。在他的記憶裏,從未見過母親這般苦澀扭曲的面容。“媽媽肚子疼,快去找大姑。”林銀嬋竭力用手推推小海峰。束手無策的他轉身便 往門外跑去。當時兩家人的房子僅僅相差100米左右,傅海峰全力衝刺,以最快的速度奔了過去。他心想:快呀!快呀!只有姑姑能救我媽!

 哪知傅海峰離開後沒多久,林銀嬋腹中的孩子便呱呱墜地。這是個女嬰。生產過程極其順利,可孩子的頭部卻被臍帶繞了好幾圈。生過一胎的林銀嬋自然知道狀況危險。但家中再沒什麼人可以求助。絕望中,她盼著兒子早些帶人回來。

 好在姑媽及時趕到。不過,她沒有讓心急如焚的小海峰進屋,只丟下一句:“乖孩子,你在外面好好玩。”然後便“嘣”地將門掩住。順著門縫,傅海峰看到母親虛弱地躺在床上,臉色蒼白。床單被褥上有大塊大塊鮮紅的血跡。再仔細一瞧,媽媽身邊似乎多了個被子捲一個嫩粉色的小人兒就裹在裏面。她咧著小嘴,一聲接一聲地吭嘰。不一會兒,門開了,姑姑把小海峰拉進屋,指著那個被子卷笑著告訴他:“這是你妹妹。” “真的啊!”他忽然間感到莫名的激動,用手碰碰“小粉人兒”的臉蛋。“咦,媽媽,她怎麼長得那麼醜啊。”此刻,疲憊的母親只剩下微笑的力氣。其實,傅海峰還想知道妹妹到底是怎樣生出來的。好像變魔術似的,家裏又多了個孩子,可以一起玩耍。

 妹妹的降臨讓傅海峰不再孤單。然而,被視作“愛哭鬼”的海妮,卻也沒少叫哥哥挨打。

 調皮搗蛋的傅海峰有時難免會把妹妹當成惡作劇物件:要麼用席子把胖乎乎的海妮捲成捲兒,來回滾著玩;要麼就將妹妹套進被罩裏,做成麻袋狀,扛起來滿屋溜達;再不然就是和她吵架拌嘴,搶玩具,沖海妮“吹鬍子瞪眼睛”;爸媽教給他“謙讓妹妹”的那些話語也早化作耳旁風,吹進遺忘的角落裏。天生嬌氣的小姑娘被 哥哥“折磨”得既難受又委屈,三下兩下就放聲大哭起來。每逢此刻,父親便不問青紅皂白,抬手朝傅海峰身上狠狠來幾巴掌。不服氣的他只得埋怨妹妹:“哭哭哭,就知道哭,煩死了!”怎奈小海妮經不住嚇唬,又咧著嘴掉起金豆。不用問,“倒楣”的哥哥還得接著挨打。

 曾幾何時,傅海峰很羡慕獨生子女:總有個黃毛小丫頭跟自己爭寵愛、搶東西,動不動還要為了她挨打受罵,一點都不好。然而,隨著年齡的增長,特別是進入國家隊,常年在北京生活後,傅海峰逐漸感覺到,有個親妹妹是多麼令人豔羨的幸福。

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